Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Needs and Wants !!!

Its funny but the connection between Need and Want is crazy !!!
A want may or may not necessarily be what we need, while on the other hand what we need may not seem like a want, then our needs turn into wants and our wants turn into needs.
Apparently *HE* gives us what we need, not what we want.
So every time one of our wants get fulfilled we can officially call it our need. WOW

So what if you get something only for awhile,then were you being tested ?? and your reaction determined if you should have it or not
then it is eventually determined by the forces of the universe that if the thing you just got was what you need then you continue getting it and just in case it was a want, its going to go away.
WOW how disappointing.
so the possibility of anything staying with you till the end of time is absolutely NIL
so then we should never want anything because the possibility of getting and then keeping it is impossible
why does life do that to us ...
is this karma???

my logic for this is

When you get it-
You deserved it and you been thru many setbacks to have this in your hand.

When he doesn't give you-
He knows you do not need it, its just that at that very moment your life worthless without it but the truth is there is so much more in store for you that this disappointment is the beginning to bigger things in life.

When you get it but only partially or its taken away from you-
We assume at every point that we know everything and how one thing can make our life easier or better. Life feels cruel, how something is so close yet so far, so achievable yet unattainable. Sometimes we spend our entire life thinking *WHAT IF*
What if i got a distinction in my exams..
What if she was in my life...
What if i lived in another city..
What if i never had to meet him...
What if we were married...
What if ..what if...what if...
Life starts revolving around the *what if* more than what is.
On an average all of us have plenty of these questions in our heads, is why sometimes we get something partially.
For eg, do u remember saying this to your self-
Thank god i never have to see her again.
I am so happy with him,the last one was such a jerk.
This city has so much more to offer, good i didn't move.
So on and so forth..

Yes these things happen and you have to let them happen, otherwise Life would be boring and incomplete.
If we didn't know how it feels to not have something we wont appreciate what we have.

And so,
We all NEED Mistakes to WANT new and improved Happiness in our Lives...

3 comments:

kashmira said...

Very very neat......I second the end completely!!

Sharon said...

thank you kash :)

lakshman said...

corrupted priest giving sunday mass spiel ;)